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Maliit po ba ang alaga ko?

By: Rica Cruz

Hi Ms. Rica,
I’m around 20-years-old, and whenever I look at my manhood, I feel that it’s small. I measured it and it’s at around five inches kapag matigas na. It’s not thin, pero I feel that it’s small. I want it to be bigger. Can you give me some tips to make it bigger para pwede sa mga girlies?

Thank you!

Hi R!
This is such an interesting letter because:

– This is a common issue amongst men

– I love how you included a girlie’s satisfaction in it! Good job, you!

Now, to answer your letter – there are surgeons who offer penis enlargement procedures, PERO, these are not seen as safe nor effective.

Neither are those medicines and exercises that you read when you Google “how to make my **** bigger.”

Sa totoo lang, at five inches long, you are at about the average length. Plus, you said that your dingie is not thin, which makes it more unreasonable for you to go into enlargement surgeries.

Just by imagining it through your letter, it seems like yours is a healthy, nice penis that’s ready to go when necessary. Yeaaah!

To add, if you go to surgery, there’s a risk that you’ll have painful scar tissue, and even painful erections after!

Yikes. Think about that time na tinuli ka. Diba masakit un? Would you want to go through that again? I don’t think so.

If you want your mojo to APPEAR bigger, losing weight is the way to go. I tell you this because I’m guessing that you want a larger mandingo to impress the girls with the huge package.

Well, if you keep a healthy weight, then your thingie will look bigger than how it is when you have fats around it.

At, kung feeling mo kailangan mas malaki for a better sexy time with the girlies, then, let me tell you that hindi kailangan.

Several studies have looked into this, and they all reach the same conclusion – size does not matter to most people. What matters then? Connection! Promise. No joke. Peksman. People, especially the girlies, look for a sense of closeness, communication, and connection during sexy time.

Intimacy will get you deeper with someone than enlarging an inch or two.

So, kung gusto mo maimpress ang girlies, kailangan interesado ka talaga sa kanila. Talk to them. Find out what makes them feel happy, sad, or whatever! Kapag sexy time na, be in the moment! Feel her, touch her, and connect with her.

And if you really want to go as deep as you can be, look her in the eye as you rock her world. Easy peasy.


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If you have questions on love and sex that you want me to answer, you may message me at www.facebook.com/TheSexyMind or DM me on Instagram: _ricacruz.

Biography: Rica Cruz is a Licensed Psychologist, Marriage Counselor, and, Sex Therapist. She comes out as the Resident Psychologist on Boys’ Night Out every Thursday night on Magic 89.9.

  • Rancid Parrino

    Madali lang ang problema mo…. Its not even a problem :) Filipinos by average are measured 4.3 inches, So kung 5 inches yan kahit papano mararamdaman nayan mahalaga dyan yung taba…. Maraming paraan para labasan partner mo… Pedeng i clit cum mo? Hanapin mo G-Spot nya. Isang dapat mong matutunan na dapat maging passion mo ang pag papa ligaya ng babae o minamahal… Yung mga multiple, simultenous kaya moring ma achieved kahit pa yung pinaka ultimate TRIANGULATION na tinatawag :)…. Ang babae sarap panoorin pag nag ka cum pinaka mataas na stage nila sa clit cum eyung seizures-like sila, gspot ganun din pati vaginal mangyayari lang to pag nakaka ranas sila ng UNLI-CUM kung tawagin…. highest level na mararadaman ng babae sa vaginal e yung nag tatayuan na anit nila sa sarap, walang babae na tatangi sayo kung masarap ka… PM molang ako makaka tulong ako dyan basta honest ka sa sarili mo at walang ego…. Im a practitioner of what im saying…

    Note: I Will acknowledge the term TRIANGULATION to Ms. ANNE (AnneValenkoff)
    who is taking up her PHD in Psycholgy (Research)—- Ateneo Manila.
    UNLI-CUM is an unlimited orgasm when you reach the highest level (Describe as constant shaking of body).

  • Rancid Parrino

    I will refute that yung sabi ni MASTER AND JOHNSON na size does’nt matter….Size does matter, you are effortles in hitting every erogenous zone you enter :) dahil din sa size you were able to do a TRIANGULATION in which is very rare teka ano ba yun? :), pero kung gagamitin mo utak mo at me passion ka sa VAGINA you can be better dun sa mas malaki pa sayo…