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The best things in life are free

by Rica Cruz

Hi Ms. Rica,

I’m an avid reader of your column, sana po masagot niyo ito bago magweekend sa Pasko. Nagiisip po ako ng gift ideas for my boyfriend na hindi na po ako gagastos ng malaki. Or kung pwede po, ung maappreciate niya na romantic and/or sexy, para hindi niya makalimutan!

Thank you,
Sexy Gift Giver

Hello Sexy Gift Giver,

Your boyfriend is lucky to have you! Totoo, you need not spend so much on a memorable gift. In fact, studies show that the material gifts matter, but not as much as gifts of experience and wonderful memories. Well, in your case, wonderful SEXY memories!

I compiled a few sweet and/or sexy gift ideas below that need very little preparation to do. Because I threw in some personal faves in, some may be tamer than others. But remember, the key here talaga is knowing your boyfriend’s tastes, interests, and personality. I do not know him, so it’s up to you to figure out what’s best for him, and of course, you!
Let’s start with the “tamed” ones on to the “naughty” ones:

• Make him a list or a compilation of things that you appreciate about him.
• Give him a bag or a basket full of your memories – first date, first movie, first kiss, etc.
• A day at home, with you cooking his favorite meal and watching his favorite movies, while you give him a sensual massage.
• Do a “12 days of Christmas” gift list, where you grant him one wish per day of 12 days! (Pwede kang gumawa ng rules for this! Pwede ring vice versa!)
• Surprise him with sexy pictures of you, so he has something to play with whenever he’s feeling lonely.
• Or i-level up mo, and give him sexy videos of you, so he has something to watch whenever he misses you. 😉
• Kung wala ka na talagang time, you can make “redeemable coupons” that say things you love to do with him from “This is for a date at your favorite restaurant” to “I owe you one round of blowing.” Ikaw na bahala kung anong klaseng blow yun.

Consider the ways din that you enjoy spending time together. Mahilig ba kayo mag-mall, mag-beach, or do you just prefer to be alone at home? What are the things that excite the both of you? According to studies, anything that you guys do together, a long as it’s fun-filled, can make you be more in-love with each other, and make relationship stronger and better! So whatever you decide to give him, just enjoy it! Good luck! #takeitfromthesexymind

If you have questions on love and sex that you want me to answer, you may message me atwww.facebook.com/TheSexyMind or DM me on Twitter or Instagram: @_ricacruz.

Biography: Rica Cruz is a Licensed Psychologist, Marriage Counselor, and Sex Therapist. She comes out as the Resident Psychologist on Boys’ Night Out every Thursday night on Magic 89.9.