Hello Ma’am Rica,
Yung kasama ko sa bahay ‘yung younger brother ko. At kapag nauubusan ako ng condom and I have someone over, kumukuha ako sa stash niya. Ang sabi niya sa akin, it’s been a while since nagdala siya ng girl sa bahay pero nababawasan ‘yung supply niya ng condom. When I asked him about it, sabi niya ginagamit niya daw minsan for masturbation.
Hindi ba sayang lang ‘yon or baka naman he’s not as inactive as he says he is? Curious lang din po.
Thank you,
Brooklyn One Nine
Hello Brooklyn One Nine,
Maganda ang pagiging open niyo ng iyong kapatid about sex and it is good also that you are maintaining safety during sexual activities! Good job! Ang short answer sa tanong mo ay, oo ang condoms ay ginagamit din minsan for self pleasure at hindi naman ito nasasayang.
Depende kasi ‘yan sa kung paano ka nag-mamastubate. It may include toys or some other instruments kaya mas preferred ng iba na gumamit ng condom. For others, baka practical for them para madaling to clean up or maybe they prefer the feeling of using a condom.
Masturbation is one way to find out what you prefer during sex which helps you later on to enjoy or to know how you will enjoy when you perform with a partner. Masturbation using a condom may help someone get used to the feeling or to be able to find a way to enjoy using condoms. Parang sinasanay ang sarili kung baga. Kasi while condom variety is becoming more wide, iba pa rin ang feeling ng penetration when using condoms.
Puwedeng hindi naman necessary ang paggamit ng condom outside the situations above pero makakatulong din ito to be more hygienic or kung may rough skin, cuts, or mga sugat ang kamay. In any case, okay itong first step at habit in finding pleasure para palaging safe!
In other words, huwag mo na ijudge ang kapatid mo, kaniya-kaniya ng trip lang din yan.
With love and lust,
Rica
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Biography: Rica Cruz is a Licensed Psychologist, Marriage Counselor, and Sex Therapist. She comes out as the Resident Psychologist on Boys’ Night Out every Thursday night on Magic 89.9.