More pleasure needed?

Good morning po Ms. Rica,

I just want to ask lang po ng konting information about orgasm. Hindi po kasi ako nila­labasan every time na magse-sex po kami. Do I need more pleasure po? And madali lang po kasi akong mapagod. We don’t use any birth control po. Pero hindi din po ako nabun­tis kahit walang birth control. It takes years po ba bago ako mabuntis? O may diperensya po ba ako sa matris? Never pa din po akong nagpa-check up about these issues po. I hope masasagot niyo po ito.

Salamat po and God bless

                                                                        Want A Baby

Hello Want A Baby,

Thank you for your questions. Sagutin ko muna ang una mong tanong. Kung hindi ka nag-o-or­gasm kapag nagsesex kayo, ibig sabihin ba nito ay hindi ka nag-o-orgasm during penetration o hindi ka pa nakakapag-orgasm kahit kai­lan?

Normal lang na hindi mag-orgasm during penetration, pero madaming paraan para magawa ito. Ang importante ay mayroon kang clitoral stimulation para mas malaki ang chance na mag-or­gasm. It does sound like you need to know what pleasures you more para malaman mo kung paano ka “lalabasan” during sexy time.

Kung madali kang mapagod, it may be helpful for you to buy toys that can do the work for you! Hindi mo na kailangan gumalaw at all! May mga vibrators na pu­wede mong gamitin para sa clitoral stimulation that could help you to orgasm.

You may also ask your partner to help you in stimulation – may it be through manual stimulation using fingers or oral sex. Sabi sa pag-aaral na ang oral sex ay isa sa mga paraan para makakuha ng intense na orgasm!

As for your next question, dif­ferent factors can affect a wom­an’s fertility – time of the monthly cycle, medications o iniinom na gamot, emotional well-being, at kahit stress! Some women can conceive nang mabilisan lang, meron namang iba na taon ang binibilang bago sila mabuntis.

Hindi ibig sabihin na dahil hindi ka nabubuntis ay may diperensiya ka na agad. Kung hindi ka pa nag­papacheck, I suggest that you go see a doctor para mas makasigu­rado ka sa kung ano ang nang­yayari sa iyo. Hindi mo kailangan mag-orgasm para mabuntis, pero siyempre, mas masaya kung may orgasm ka at you enjoy sex while you’re trying to make a baby! Good luck!

With love and lust,

Rica

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Biography: Rica Cruz is a Li­censed Psychologist, Marriage Counselor, and Sex Therapist. She comes out as the Resident Psy­chologist on Boys’ Night Out every Thursday night on Magic 89.9.