My oldest sister is my best friend. Since we’re 10 years apart, I have always looked up to her. She always knows what’s best for me in any situation, or so she thinks. Many times over the years she has hurt my feelings with snide remarks about my relationships or work-related issues. She says cruel things without realizing she is hurting my feelings. But I still get her opinion whether I want it or not. However, the older she gets, the worse she becomes.