I and my boyfriend have been ‘on’ for almost nine months. However, I still have a problem about his obsession with his ex-girlfriends. He would always talk about them, what they were like and on and on. He also says I am being secretive and should open up more about my past relationships. However, I feel the past should stay there, and in order to have a future with someone, you have to resolve your feelings for an ex and move on. I’ve never encountered a guy like this before. Am I overreacting?