ACTRESS Ruffa Gutierrez has revealed that she got drank and shed tears for a guy once when their relationship failed.
“One day lang siguro. Sa ex kong baliw. Si Yilmaz (Bektas). Sino pa nga ba? The others are not worth the tears. So umiyak naman ako. Muntik na akong magkaroon ng thinking disorder. Pero hindi naman. Strong ako,” said Gutierrez during an interview on “Tonight With Arnold Clavio” on GMA News TV recently.
Gutierrez, 43, tied the knot with Turkish businessman Bektas in 2003. They have two children Lorin Gabriella and Venezia Loren. Gutierrez and Bektas separated in 2007.
Clavio also asked Gutierrez about her thoughts on other issues dealing with relationships.
On long-distance relationship: “I’ve been in so many long-distance relationships. Ang kailangan lang talaga may finality. Meron na dapat kayong usapan like two years ganito ang mangyayari. One of you has to give in and move sa isang bansa na ‘yun. Hindi pwedeng forever long-distance.”
On Dutch treat during dates: “Sa umpisa no! Pwede namang you have to put your best foot forward. Kung four years na kayo and on-going, pwedeng share share na lang kayo, di ba? Pero sa umpisa eeeww!”
Women courting men: “No! The more na hindi mo pansinin ang isang lalaki, the more na tumatawag sya.
“At saka itinuturo ko nga sa mga anak ko magpaligaw sila. Kasi nowadays puro Instagram na lang ang ligawan. Kadiri! Dapat naman pumunta sila sa bahay magbigay sila sa akin ng mga fruits, vegetables, chocolates, flowers. Pumunta kayo sa bahay after five years mga boys!” said Gutierrez.
Divorce: “Yes! Especially pagnabubugbug ka! Ayaw mo naman to stay forever in a relationship na lagi kang may black eye, di ba?”
May-December love affair: “Exciting yun! Basta ‘wag naman ‘yung uugo-ugo na. Kailangan naman pareho kayong mukhang bata. Let’s say ako hindi naman ako mukhang you know. It depends. It’s very unfair na minsan older ‘yung guy younger ‘yung girl. Bakit si French President ganun? And they’re happy!”
On trust: “There’s always should be trust. Kung walang trust get rid of him.” (Robert R. Requintina)