By: Rica Cruz
Hi Rica:
Can you give me tips on what to do with my girlfriend’s breasts? She always puts my hand on her breasts but I have no idea what to do with them. I’m not particularly fond with them, so I don’t know what to do. Please help me out.
Thank you,
No Clue Man
Hi No Clue Man,
You have a lucky girlfriend because you are proactive in looking for ways to pleasure her! Yes, the breasts are part of the female erogenous zones and there are different ways to play with them to ensure their pleasure potential!
What’s the first thing to do? Ask! Ask your girlfriend what she wants you to do with them. When she puts your hands on her jewels while you’re making out, don’t be afraid to ask her what she wants. Keeping an open communication during sexy play can be incredible sexy, arousing and fun for the both of you!
But other than that, what are the things that you can try? Here are a few tips on handling breasts depending on your mood:
• Hand jobs: Caress, Fondle, Cradle, Squeeze, and Jiggle
• Finger jobs: Stroke, Twist, and Tickle
• Mouth jobs: Kiss, Lick, Suck, and Nibble
• Sexy jobs: Massage, and Lubricate
• Experiment: Add whiped cream, ice cream, or any other edible stuff you can think of!
Just make sure that you start with gentle touches and massages, gradually making your way to the more aggressive squeezing. Be careful not to hurt her though! Huwag kang manggigil agad agad!
These things are quite fun during foreplay. What most people don’t know is that these can be done during the main attraction too! Most women love it when their nipples and breasts are stimulated during the sexy act itself. Some women even experience orgasms during nipple stimulation!
Now, do know that practice makes perfect! Giving and receiving feedback from her will help you gain confidence in stimulating your new breast friends. You may be a little lost right now, but don’t pressure yourself too much.
Learning is part of sex play. And this learning can help you not just have fun in bed but also grow closer and more intimate with your partner! May you have a lot of squeezing fun! #takeitfromthesexymind
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If you have questions on love and sex that you want me to answer, you may message me at www.facebook.com/TheSexyMind or DM me on Instagram: _ricacruz.
Biography: Rica Cruz is a Licensed Psychologist and Sex Therapist. She comes out as the Resident Sex Therapist on Boys’ Night Out every Thursday night on Magic 89.9.