Hi Rica!
My GF and I are avid experimenters and we both love it! Lately, we’re thinking of playing with Christmas candles (we have a lot!) Do you think it’s okay if we drip hot candle wax and play with the wax down there? Would it hurt? Is it safe?
Thanks!
Candle Bearer
Hi Candle Bearer!
I love your creative mind and your willingness to experiment. Sounds like you and your girlfriend have a healthy and active sexual life!
There are so many hot and sexy things to do with candles, but of course, we don’t want it to be so hot, it literally burns! Ouch. So what do you need to know?
– There are different types of wax, and each has different melting point. The rule is: The softer the wax, the lower the melting point, and with a lower melting point, the less chance you’ll get some type of burn in your body.
Paraffin wax, which is soft at room temperature, could be your best bet!
– Color, scent, and other additives to a candle could increase its melting point. So if you’ll use Christmas candles, you’d want them to be as plain as possible. More additives could mean more chances of catching a skin irritation!
– The shorter distance you hold the candle to the skin, the greater the tendency of a burnt sensitive area. To avoid this, hold the candle at least 18 inches above the skin so it has time to cool. To be sure (and avoid hot fights), you might want to test it on yourself first before her.
– Avoid the face, and be really careful about the nipples and the genital areas. Remember that wax is used to strip off hair, so unless you want a waxing session that could turn out to be uber painful, avoid hairy areas too!
For the optimal pleasurable experience, be as open and as honest with each other as possible. Keep in mind that playing with wax can be physically dangerous, and the number one way to avoid any danger is for you guys to communicate – before, during, and after the experience.
Hope you get to read this before tonight so you can have a waxy, sexy, and hot Christmas Eve! #takeitfromthesexymind
Merry Christmas everyone!
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partner might have a negative reaction, then I would suggest that you give yourself some time until you fully trust him. Good luck. #takeitfromthesexymind
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If you have questions on love and sex that you want me to answer, you may message me at www.facebook.com/TheSexyMind or DM me on Instagram: @_ricacruz.
Biography: Rica Cruz is a Licensed Psychologist, Marriage Counselor, and Sex Therapist. She comes out as the Resident Psychologist on Boys’ Night Out every Thursday night on Magic 89.9.