By RICA CRUZ
Dear Ms. Cruz,
Me and my boyfriend are sexually active. Usually during the deed, we use protection naman. Pero parehas kaming nag-eenjoy na mag-ejaculate siya like on my face or sa aking dibdib or iba pang parte ng katawan. Parang ‘yun ‘yung isang mutual enjoyment namin sa sex. We are both wondering kung may paraan ba para dumami ‘yung napro-produce na cum. Related po ba ito sa sperm count? Parang ‘yung mga napapanood kasi namin na porn parang ang dami. Baka puwede ding magawa. Thank you.
Condensada
Hello sa iyo Condensada,
Mukhang inspired by porn nga ang inyong pinagkakatuwaan sa sex. And it’s a good thing to have that mutual enjoyment ng iyong partner during sexy time.
Ang semen or cum or ejaculate ay produkto ng internal reproductive system ng mga kalalakihan. Kailangan mo ding malaman na ang sperm ay nasa five percent lamang ng ejaculate. Walang magic formula or paraan para maparami ito bigla pero nagva-vary ito based din sa tagal ng interval between ejaculations and hydration.
Ang ejaculate ay may range na 0.8ml hanggang 7.6ml with the average na nasa 3ml to 5ml. Meron talagang mga lalaki na naturally mas madaming maglabas ng semen sa kanilang katawan. Merong semen analysis na puwedeng gawin ang isang health professional para makita ang composition ng semen.
Wala pa din kasing scientific evidence or research na nagsasabing may gamot o ibang produkto na nagpaparami ng semen.
Evidence only points to interval na two hanggang three days between ejaculation ay nagreresulta sa mas madaming volume. Kailangan din maging hydrated to maximize volume potential.
Ang mga nakikita mo sa porn ay sadyang nirecruit maybe because of certain qualities like size and shape ng kanilang ari. Kasama din minsan kung kailangan nila ng porn star na malakas magproduce ng semen.
Madami ding involved na editing sa porn kaya mas maiging i-enjoy mo nalang itong panoorin than comparing what you have with your boyfriend. Madalas kasi na hindi makatotohanan ang mga ipinapalabas sa porn. Anyway, as long as you keep healthy and protected, and open to possibilities, good sex will “cum” your way! Always enjoy and be safe. #takeitfromthesexymind
With love and lust,
Rica
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Biography: Rica Cruz is a Licensed Psychologist, Marriage Counselor, and, Sex and Relationships Therapist. She comes out as the Resident Psychologist on Boys’ Night Out every Thursday night on Magic 89.9.
