Hi Ms. Rica,
Kailangan po bang mag condom kahit pareho naman po kaming virgin? Nakinig po kami sa talk niyo sa school namin. May mga ginawa na kami, but … we talked about it and pareho kaming willing to do it with each other. Hindi lang po namin alam kung kailangan ba talaga mag condom pa?
Virgin Duo
Hi Virgin Duo,
Sounds like you guys are having a lot of exciting experiences! Congratulations for thinking about safer sex practices even before doing it. And salamat din sa pakikinig at pagpunta sa talk namin in your school! Sana, marami kang natutunan.
Condoms, when used correctly, can effectively prevent the transmission of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and the occurrence of pregnancy. So hindi lang ninyo maiiwasan mabuntis nang wala sa oras, pero nakakatulong din ito para hindi kayo magkasakit.
It is recommended that you use a condom even during your first time. Hindi naman ito makakahadlang sa inyong pleasure and connection while having sex for the first time. Even if you consider yourselves “virgins,” it is possible that one of you have engaged in other sexual activities with someone infected with STIs. Kahit kasi oral sex or kissing ay pwedeng maka transmit ng STIs. Also, pwede ring magkaroon ng STI congenitally.
Moreover, using condoms during the first time will also condition you to use condoms every time you have sexual encounters. Minsan kasi, may mga nagsasabi na dahil hindi sila sanay gumamit ng condom ay ayaw na nila gumamit nito kahit kailan. Kaya mas maiging sanayin niyo ang isa’t isa na magcondom to practice and practice responsible, safer sex.
So, para makaiwas sa sakit at kung sa tingin niyo ay hindi pa kayo ready na magka-anak ng iyong partner ay mas mainam na gumamit ng condom para rin maka-focus kayo sa pageenjoy ng iyong sexual experience nang hindi nagwoworry about STIs or pagkabuntis, di ba? Better safe, than sorry!
With love and lust,
Rica
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(Biography: Rica Cruz is a Licensed Psychologist, Marriage Counselor, and, Sex and Relationships Therapist. She comes out as the Resident Psychologist on Boys’ Night Out every Thursday night on Magic 89.9.)
