Hi Ms. Rica,
Kapag tinitingnan ko po ang ari ko, para po siyang maliit. Nung sinukat ko po, mga four to five inches po siya nang matigas na. Hindi po siya manipis, actually, medyo mataba po siya, pero naliliitan po talaga ako. May mga puwede po bang gawin para lumaki ito kahit unti?
Thank you!
Small Boy
Hello Small Boy!
Nakakatuwa na sumulat ka sa akin para magtanong tungko sa iyong ari. At sinukat mo pa talaga! Sa totoo lang, common ang iyong issue dito sa Pilipinas.
Madaming mga lalaki ang feeling nila, mayroon silang maliit na ari pero hindi naman talaga.
Now, to answer your question – may mga doctor na nagoopera para magpalaki ng ari through penis enlargements procedures, pero hindi ito safe at hindi rin ito effective.
Kung magreresearch ka naman sa Internet, makikita mo na madaming mga gamot o machine na nagsasabing kaya nila magpalaki ng ari, pero hindi rin sila makatotohanan.
To add, if you go to surgery, there’s a risk na magkaroon ka ng painful scar tissue, and even painful erections after! Yikes. Think about that time na tinuli ka. Diba masakit un? Would you want to go through that again? Aray ko.
Sa totoo lang, ang mga five inches mo ay about the average length. Plus, sabi mo nga na hindi naman ito manipis. Kaya, wala kang dapat ikabahala. Nang binabasa ko ang sulat mo, mukha namang normal at healthy lang ang iyong ari, ikaw lang talaga ang nagiisip na ito’y maliit.
Now, kung gusto mo talagang mag mukhang mas malaki ang iyong ari, losing weight is the way to go. Kapag mas payat ka at walang fats sa paligid ng iyong penis, mas magmumukha itong malaki, kahi na five inches pa rin siya.
At, kung feeling mo kailangan mas malaki for a better sexy time…hindi ito totoo. Madami nang pagaaral dito at lahat ng ito ay nagsasabi na size does not matter. What matters then? Connection! Promise. No joke. Peksman.
People, especially tang mga babae, look for a sense of closeness, communication, and connection during sexy time. Intimacy will get you deeper with someone than enlarging an inch or two.
So, kung gusto mo maimpress ang girlies, kailangan interesado ka talaga sa kanila. Talk to them. Find out what makes them feel happy, sad, or whatever!
Kapag sexy time na, be in the moment! Feel her, touch her, and connect with her. And if you really want to go as deep as you can be, look her in the eye as you rock her world.
With love and lust,
Rica
If you have questions on love and sex that you want me to answer, follow me on Twitter and Instagram: @_ricacruz and www.facebook.com/TheSexyMind
Biography: Rica Cruz is a Licensed Psychologist and Sex Therapist. She comes out as the Resident Sex Therapist on Boys’ Night Out every Thursday night on Magic 89.9.
