Anal stimulation

Dear Ms. Rica,

I am not gay, but I en­joy anal stimulation ka­pag nag-mamasturbate. Tanong ko lang kasi minsan kapag nagmamasturbate ako sa anal area at nilala­basan din ako doon. Mukha siyang sperm at madami siya whenever it happens. Parang same amount ka­pag nag-ejaculate ako through the penis. Is this normal ba o kailangan ko na ba magpatingin?

Anal Boy

Dear Anal Boy,

It’s normal to enjoy anal stimulation regardless of gen­der. Our anal region kasi has sensitive nerve endings that can heighten our feelings and sensations during stimulation. Tapos, kung ikaw ay lalaki at birth, you also have the pros­tate gland that can be stimu­lated through the anal canal. This gland is also known as the “male g-spot” and it can give you immense pleasure kapag ito ay nastimulate! 😉

Likewise, normal lang din for the inside of our anus to expel some lubrication lalo na kung ikaw ay na-arouse sexually and you orgasm! Pero, if it’s releasing any other kind of liq­uid when it’s not during those sexual moments or while do­ing your normal No. 2 routine, or if you are experiencing diarrhea, pain during bowel movements, or you have blood in your stools, then you may have to visit your doctor at magpatingin na.

Otherwise, our anus has the ability to self-lubricate, pero hindi kasing lubricated katulad ng kayang gawin ng vagina. During times when the anal region is aroused, na-i-stimu­late ang ating pelvic muscles causing the anus to contract na parang nag-oorgasm.

Due to these contractions, the mucus membrane may secrete and expel liquid na katulad ng iyong na-observe. There are people who may ex­perience just a small amount of lubrication, pero may iba naman na nakaka-experience ng madami. Also, the sweat o pawis around the anal region can increase the lubrication around the area.

Pero, it’s important to keep in mind na madalas na hindi enough ang lubrication na ito to replace artificial lubrica­tion during anal penetration. Kaya, it’s better to still keep lubricants ready lalo na kung mag-iinsert ka ng toys or any other body part in the anus. Having enough lubrication can reduce your risk of having abrasions during penetration, at mas magiging comfortable ka rin during the deed, making it more pleasurable!

Whatever you do during masturbation is up to you. But, if you feel na something’s off o kaya may iba ka nang nararamdaman, then it’s re­ally better to go to a doctor so he or she can analyze your situation. 😉

With Love and Lust,

Rica

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Biography: Rica Cruz is a Licensed Psychologist, Mar­riage Counselor, and, Sex and Relationships Therapist. She comes out as the Resident Psychologist on Boys’ Night Out every Thursday night on Magic 89.9.