Hi Ms. Rica,
Ano po bang mga positions and safe para sa buntis habang lumalaki ang belly ni wifey? Buntis po kasi ang asawa ko and may nagsabi sa amin na hindi daw pwede ang sexy time pag buntis dahil baka daw masaktan si baby! Nabasa ko po sa isa sa mga column niyo na okay lang basta normal and healthy pregnancy, pero di po namin alam kung anong safe na position ang pwede. Thank you ma’am!
Baby Daddy
Hi Baby Daddy!
Congratulations on your upcoming baby! Wooohooo! Like what I said before, hindi naman kailangan i-sacrifice and sexy time and sexual pleasure just because you and your wife are expecting. Safe at perfectly healthy and vaginal sex during pregnancy, maliban na lang kung sinabi ng inyong doctor na hindi ito pwede over concerns of preterm labor or vaginal bleeding. Otherwise, i-enjoy niyo ang nine months of sexy time without the worry of getting pregnant! Hahaha.
To answer your question, most sexual positions are perfectly safe din. Kaya, it’s up to you and your wife to figure out kung ano ang pinaka-komportable at enjoyable na position for the both of you. Though, habang lumalaki ang belly ni wifey ay mas mabuti na ingatan ang pagkakaroon ng pressure sa belly during sex. Thus, it may be more comfortable for your wifey kung siya ang on top during sexy time, para mas makokontrol din niya kung gaano kalalim ang iyong mararating. Pero, kung madali siyang mapagod, another position that you may try is the spooning or side by side position. Pwedeng nakahiga lang on her side si wifey and you enter her from behind. Para mas comfortable, pwede kayo gumamit ng madaming unan para may patungan ang baby belly.
Remember, ang sex ay hindi lang intercourse o penetration. Madami pa kayong pwedeng gawin aside from vaginal sex that could make you both feel satisfied. Kung nahihirapan na talaga kayo dahil sa big baby bump, you can always experiment with different forms of sexual intimacy and foreplay. Use your creativity and imagination! *wink* Good luck!
With love and lust,
Rica
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Biography: Rica Cruz is a Licensed Psychologist and Sex Therapist. She comes out as the Resident Sex Therapist on Boys’ Night Out every Thursday night on Magic 89.9.
