Buying sex toys

Hello Ms. Rica,

I saw in your Instagram stories the time when you showed your students sex toys. Gusto ko din sanang bumili. ‘Yung problem ko lang is baka makita or mahanap ng parents ko apart from actually buying it. Nahihiya din kasi akong magpunta sa store, mag-check at magtanong about it. Baka po meron kayong mabibigay na advice sa akin.

Thank you

Cool Vibrations

Hi Cool Vibrations,

‘Wag kang mag-alala dahil hindi lang ikaw ang nakakara­mdam ng ganyang mga senti­ments when it comes to sex toys. Pero maganda din naman ‘yan dahil you are trying to be open and explore your sexual­ity.

Medyo intimidating talaga ang magpunta sa store to see all these toys. To others, it can become overwhelming din. At least andun ka na sa first step of considering a vibrator pur­chase.

Generally speaking, very friendly naman ang salespeople sa mga ganitong lugar. They encourage questions so you can be confident and satisfied with your purchase. Puwede kang magtanong sa kanila depending on your preference.

Marami namang available re­sources din online to research different types that can help you with your purchase anxi­ety. You will also have an idea of what to expect kapag nag­punta ka na sa store. Also note that with your concern about your parents finding out is a fear of most people going out to buy vibrators.

The good thing is naman na meron nang mga discreet vi­brators that are small, looks like jewelry or minsan nga ay ang nakalagay pa sa product ay “personal massager.” An­other thing to consider is yung noise level kasi kung manipis ang walls, you might also want to consider this in your pur­chase.

Be proud of taking control over your sexual pleasure and be more confident with your purchase. Have fun!

With love and lust,

Rica

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Biography: Rica Cruz is a Li­censed Psychologist, Marriage Counselor, and Sex Therapist. She comes out as the Resident Psychologist on Boys’ Night Out every Thursday night on Magic 89.9.