Hello Maam Rica,
May fetish kasi ‘yung boyfriend ko na hindi ko alam kung normal ba or kung okay lang ba. We are both guys and when he enters me, mas gusto niya kapag nilalagyan niya muna ng water ‘yung inside ng anus ko. Minsan malamig minsan naman medyo mainit pero ‘pag uncomfortable naman ako ay sinasabi ko sa kanya. Ang sarap daw kasi ng feeling although never ko pa na-try. Pero kasi sakin hindi ko nafi-feel until i-pull out niya. Dangerous ba itong fetish niyang ito?
Thank you,
Backdoor Play
Hello Backdoor Play,
‘Yung act na ginagawa ng partner mo or his preference na may tubig pa sa iyong anus ay tulad ng isang enema. An enema flushes water into then out of the anus to initiate a bowel movement or clean out traces ng feces or bacteria. Merong iba na nasasarapan sa enema and they find it pleasurable and erotic pero sa iba naman ito ay uncomfortable. May mga instances pa nga na ang pagpeperform ng enema ay may adverse health consequences.
Kahit na may magandang dulot ang water-based enema in certain situations, enemas can also disrupt bowel movements. Kapag gumamit ka ng enema nang madalas, it can increase your risk of injury to your anus or rectum. Also, kapag nasanay ka sa enema, baka dumating ang oras na kailangan mo na palagi ng enema para makapagbawas. If you’re uncomfortable with this, it is highly suggested na maghanap ka na lang ng iba pang sexual acts that can be pleasurable for you and your partner. Pero kung bet mo talaga ang water play in your anal region, here are some tips for you to consider:
– Make sure that the water is lukewarm at hindi masyadong mainit o malamig.
– Also make sure that your water is clean. Filtered water may contain less minerals and chemicals than tap water.
– Have lots of lubrication for anal sex. Dahil may kasamang tubig ang anal play niyo, mas okay kung palaging may lube na nirere-apply.
Remember, playing safe is extremely important – kahit ano pa mang sexual act ang gagawin mo with your partner. It is always a good idea to get tested regularly for STIs and use condoms with water or silicon-based lubricant to make sure that you’re protected!
Be safe in more ways than one!
With Love and Lust,
Rica
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Biography: Rica Cruz is a Licensed Psychologist and Sex Therapist. She comes out as the Resident Sex Therapist on Boys’ Night Out every Thursday night on Magic 89.9.
