Hi Ms. Rica,
Ano po ba ang dapat gawin after sex? May mga rules po ba? Kailangan po ba mag-cuddle? Mag-usap? May suggestions po ba kayo? Hindi ko po kasi alam at gusto ko lang po ready ako.
AfterSex
Hello AfterSex,
That’s a great and unique question! Sa totoo lang, ngayon ko lang na-encounter ang tanong na ito and it’s good that you’re thinking about things to do even after sex at hindi lang during the act itself. Ang sex naman kasi ay hindi dapat natatapos sa orgasm, it is better to have that intimacy flowing even after intercourse or any sexual activity.
Katulad ng walang “right” way to have sex, wala ring “rules” of things to do after sex. Iba-iba ang ginagawa ng tao after sex, depending on their mood, their time, or their intentions. May mga taong humihiga lang muna. Mayroon din namang nag-uusap tungkol sa experience nila and how they feel (which is highly recommended!) There are people naman who go to sleep, go to the bathroom, get ready for work, or even turn on the TV. So kahit ano talaga, pwede!
Before you decide on what to do, baka mas mabuting pag-usapan niyo ng partner niyo ang different scenarios na pwedeng mangyari. Ano ba ang gusto niya? Ano ba ang gusto mo? Gusto ba niya makipag-cuddle and talk? O manood ng TV and recuperate? Baka gusto niya ring kumain? It’ll be best if you ask and check in with your partner before and after. Remember, there are no rules, so be open, but of course, be safe and have fun exploring!
Love and lust,
Rica
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Biography: Rica Cruz is a Licensed Psychologist and Sex Therapist. She comes out as the Resident Sex Therapist on Boys’ Night Out every Thursday night on Magic 89.9.
