Hi Ms. Rica,
Gusto po ba ng babae ang oral sex o kapag dinidilaan sila? Kaya ko po ba ma-feel na natatapos sila through oral sex? Sana po masagot niyo ako! Thank you.
Licker
Hello Licker,
According to studies, madaming mga babae ang gusto ng oral sex dahil mas nagkakaroon sila ng mas intense na orgasm from it. Pero, it still very much depends on how it is done to them. Kung hindi nila gusto kung paano mo sila dinidilaan, hindi sila mag-oorgasm.
Paano mo ba malalaman kung nag-oorgasm ang isang babae? Usually, para sa mga babae, kapag nag-oorgasm sila ay may nararamdaman silang contractions of the pelvic muscles. Kaya mo ito maramdaman kung magpapasok ka ng finger or penis into the vagina. Pwede mo rin itong maramdaman through oral sex kung malakas ang pagtibok o throbbing ng kaniyang pelvic muscles.
Pero, hindi lahat ng babae ay nakaka-experience ng contractions during orgasm. May iba’t ibang paraan para matapos ang mga babae and the best way to know kung natapos ang partner mo, is to ask her. Huwag kang matakot magtanong, wala namang mawawala sa yo.
With that being said, ito pa ang ibang paraan to know if your partner had an orgasm:
– Aside from muscle contractions of the pelvic muscles, the vagina, or even the anus, pwede rin makaramdam ng pag-nginig o pagshiver ang buong katawan ng babae;
– Tignan mo rin ang kanyang facial expression, usually, nakabukas ang bibig at nakapikit ang mata nila, with a facial grimace during orgasm. Minsan, mukha itong expression ng nasasaktan kahit na sa totoo ay nasasarapan sila.
– Madalas din ay nag-hyhyperventilate ang mga babae during orgasm. Mabilis ang kanilang paghinga na sign ng kanilang sexual arousal.
– May mga babae ding naglalabas ng sound or moan kapag nagoorgasm as part of their release.
Again, pwedeng maramdaman mo o ng partner mo ang mga signs na ito, pero hindi pa rin ito guarantee na sila ay nag-orgasm. As I’ve said, it’s best if you ask your partner kung nasarapan ba sila at nag-orgasm ba sila or hindi during your oral sexcapade. That way, malalaman mo rin kung ano ang mga tama mong ginagawa, at mas mag-iimprove ka sa iyong oral sex skills! Have fun!
Love and lust,
Rica
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Biography: Rica Cruz is a Licensed Psychologist and Sex Therapist. She comes out as the Resident Sex Therapist on Boys’ Night Out every Thursday night on Magic 89.9.
