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Why is it hard to love an enemy?

By: Chinkee Tan

In business, you will never run out of enemies. Having enemies not because you know them but they are just your business competitors.

The thing is, you haven’t done anything to offend or hurt them, but they still keep on saying nasty things against you.

When you do something nice, they will criticize you. When you do something wrong, they have even more cruel comments.

They never run out of things of negative things to say. In other words, these are the people are out there to destroy the name and reputation that you built.

These are people we would normally call MORTAL ENEMY. It may be just like the game MORTAL KOMBAT – an enemy for life.

If you have experienced and still experiencing it now, let me encourage you, do not give them the time of the day.

They are just insecure of what they have that is the reason why they want to become better and greater than you.

They are envious of what you have accomplished and achieved in your life. They are angry people whose life is full of pain and resentment.

An angry person will always be angry. There’s nothing anyone can do about it. You and I cannot do anything to please them.

Ignore them. Don’t allow yourself to be bothered by their negativity. Don’t let them get to you. Don’t give them the privilege of taking away your joy and peace.

Focus your time and energy instead on something more productive, such as:

– The things that benefit you and bring you good thoughts.

– The things that will help you improve.

– The things that can heal your hurts.

– The things that can help you move on.

Focusing our time and energy on the negative will only bring out the worst in you.


Friend, can you relate to this article? Do you have a mortal enemy?